A B O U T M Y FAMILY
I have been married for 23 years to my long suffering husband Roy and we have 2 fantastic daughters, who both leading their own independent lives. We now have a relatively new addition to the family my Grand daughter Lilly who is now 2 1/2 years old all together now arhhhhhhhhh. My family originated from Hull, England, moved to Ipswich, England, a long time ago, before I was born. Most have stayed within the Ipswich area. We are a close knit family who take care of each other, not only in times of crisis.
The family as a whole are not into spiritual development but is has now emerged that 2 of my cousins have a spirit connection. Both my daughters were born seeing spirit; as they have grown up they are choosing different paths for now. Although spirit does have a way of calling us back when the time is right.
Past Work
I have worked with children and families for 15 years as a childminder, nursery nurse, classroom assistant, care assistant, playleader. Working with children and young people, I have noticed that those using holistic methods: ADHD; ADD, Autism etc, appear more able to focus and use self control, self expression within their daily life. Until now childcare has always been my primary area of work. Now I diversify and at times work with adults who have learning disabilities. This work is very rewarding it becomes exciting as the client learns new things, you begin to once again see things from a different perspective.
It was here that I decided to learn Indian Head Massage and Reiki; believe me it definitely helps young people and adults alike to find their focus again. It is then you begin to realise there is more to life than just taking all the time. Giving has a great feel good factor attached to it. So now I have a policy of my own each and every day I do at least one good thing for others without expecting a reward.
Future Work
Now I’m travelling on a new path and thoroughly enjoying my journey with all of its twists and turns. I really want my work with spirit to be to the best of my ability; at times this appears hard holding down a job and dedicating what’s left of life to spirit. At present I am still tying all the loose ends together; this is still a relatively new venture. Heights of Tranquillity is now four years old and it has been one big adventure for me; my husband at first was convinced that I had hit a mid life crisis but he is even impressed with my abilities now.
I do know that my Social Work training is still put to good use. Knowing how to relate to others is an essential part of my work. If I had not needed to take part in all the presentations (which I hated) then I would be unable to stand in front of people and teach or even give readings for groups etc.
Past Spiritual Experience
As a young child I vaguely remember seeing a lady in a nurses uniform in my room at night; it wasn’t until I much older that I was informed by my spirit teachers that she was an early guide sent to protect me. I often had psychic episodes e.g. knowing who was going to visit or telephone all through my life. Again I have always had experiences with Deja Vu as a child I never really gave it a thought but now as an adult I question it every time to try to find the reason behind it. Intuition is something I have utilised through life and it still leads me today; I have never gone wrong following my intuition until recently ( I'll explain more shortly).
At around the age of 13 years old, I went through a very traumatic time I started to have very strange dreams some would call them nightmares. At that time in my life I was into leather jackets, rock music and motorbikes it’s good to know that not everything changes, sorry let’s get back to the story. These dreams were so vivid it was as if I was there watching it all unfold, I’m still not 100% sure if I was being shown the future (premonitions) or astral travelling. All I knew was that it all felt too real. The next day I discovered my friends, fiancé Moses short for Michael had passed away in a biking accident the previous night. It wasn’t until several weeks later that I found out all the relevant information, me being only young, people didn’t want to upset me. It all struck me as very strange it was exactly like my dream.
Over the next 2 years there were more such dreams I became very anxious and didn’t want to sleep, my dreams had now become nightmares. It all came to head when I had yet two more friends Mark and Pauline pass over, I read about it at work the next day I still don’t know why I wanted to read it as I already knew all the details. At that point I broke down at work I decided that I couldn’t go on like this. I vaguely remember shouting (not praying to God) to let it finish, then it all stopped. It took months for me to really settle down, I kept expecting it to come back but it never did.
I have recently found out that my guide Rogart was with me then and he knew I would take the deaths very hard so he wanted to help me. He thought I would come to terms with it easier if I saw it first in dreamstate; when he realised how bad it effected me he stepped back and decided that it was not time for us to work together. Not too many years ago I obtained a place at college on a Social Work Diploma. Using my intuition had led me to this point, all through my life I had known what I was doing at each turn so I was sure I would get on the course. At the same time as this I had already been doing readings etc, primarily for friends and family but then I decided to work more on my spiritual development. In the end my training went alongside the Social Work at this point I was still convinced that I would become a Social Worker.
Upon reflection now I realise that I had only ever seen me training and doing a placement. Near the end of the course I had already decided to start the business at that time it was under the name of Debz as I felt it would not matter because it would put distance between me and Social Work clients. Then disaster struck or so I thought on my last placement things started to go wrong. I had to redo a small section of the course, it was then discovered that I had Dyslexic traits, I spent the whole summer heartbroken but still carried on with the business ideas. By time my next placement was due to start I was already torn in two directions. It was as if I was being pulled away from Social Work but still I fought it.
Then it was if a giant burden had gone, I left college still questioning whether I was doing the right thing and put all my energies into the business. I learnt a lot over that period of my life, it is said that when we are called to work for spirit there is generally a life changing occurrence well I would say I have had mine. Now I always think how I can make my life count on a daily basis. I do find that my journey is carrying on and I am being shown my way forward which I will tell you all about at a later date, so watch this space.